“We are called to be the architects of the future, not its victims.” 

 ~ R. Buckminister Fuller

Long-term close friendships have become increasingly difficult to keep, especially if friends relocate hundreds of miles away. Rather than simply accepting that another valued friendship will fade into the sunset, try staying connected with a group experience. 

In my family’s case, we joined up with friends at beautiful Estes Park, Colorado. We rented inexpensive cabins and spent time hiking together, eating meals and sitting around the fire pits sharing laughter and stories. In fact, We’re planning another trip together as I write this section. 

Resist the temptation to passively accept that friendships will naturally fade due to distance. Yes, phone calls and social media are adequate methods to stay in touch. Yet, nothing can replace a special kind of connectedness and anchor friendships like time spent together. 

Take personal responsibility for the relationships in your life. Take the initiative and make plans for a group vacation. It’s worth the effort!

“Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age but they die young.”  ~ Benjamin Franklin